If the speaker is very, very very smart that is not enough:
they have to have a heart that is 100 times larger than their wisdom,
otherwise it just comes off as "heartless wisdom" ,
it gets you high for a few days and then just evaporates....
Normally, a psychologist will never provoke a client to yell.
But , as an accomplished actor and acting coach,
I have the ability to get any married couple to yell what they love,
and yell (and vent away) what they hate:
By the time a person is 30 years old,
the average person has spent a full 200 hours yelling what they hate,
and less than 2 hours yelling what they love:
it is obvious to an acting coach that this would (accidently) create a skill set of being strong with negative emotions, and weaker with positive.
The same intense brutal emotional intelligence techniques used by actors should also be available to everyone who wants it .
I know how to get people to yell and vent (and uncover) what they love,
and yell and vent what they hate.
As a bonus, (in a controlled setting), i have clients vent
and yell what they hate AND beak stuff:
this helps them remember (uncover) how mad they really were (/are).
I make sure my coaching is super , super smart,
and the heart and emotions are 100 times more stornger:
to keep things in the proper balance.
HERE ARE SOME OF THE TOPICS THAT GIVE COACHING AND PUBLIC SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS ON :.
1: ATHLETIC STILLNESS: How to have unlimited energy: How to have more calmness and STILLNESS when you are running fast than you are getting a 1 hour massage: this is called ATHLETIC STILLNESS. feel free to click my other website: AthleticStillness.com
2 GET or GROW: How to have Abundance: No matter what size your company is, no matter what company you keep: The largest barrier to every relationship:
people are trying to Get respect, not grow respect
trying to get a resolution, not grow resolution
trying to get a relationship, not grow a relationship, even
trying to get married, instead of "growing marriage"
I know this looks simple: I will amaze you with how people can "hack" you every day. for more info on coaching and speaking on this topic , please visit my website: GET or GROW .com
3 THRILL or SKILL: When i do mediations, it is usually a flat fee for 6 hours. But i give the parties a choice: Do they want a fast agreeable resolution. ( a THRILL to them at the time). Or do they want me to teach them advanced mediation skills, like how to debate and argue with class, focus, and a sense of humor. that takes 4 hours to 6 hours. (The are learning the SKILL of how to re-frame, re phrase everything as a thrill, an opportunity, and a lift:
It is the same cost either way: I ask them,
"Do you want me to THRILL you, or (quickly) SKILL you ?
this topic sound simple, but there are some wonderfull twist you might want to hear:
If you ever hear a motivatioal speaker, and you get "high as a kite" and it all evaporates in 3 weeks, then you were "thrilled , not skilled".
i would never do that !
i am free for company Motivational speeches and workshops on this
feel free to call me at 310 454 7401
or visit Don THRILL or SKILL .com